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- How to Find a Dominant Woman: For Submissive Men
- How to Make Your First BDSM Scene Amazing: For Dominant Women
- How To Handle Disobedience: For Dominant Women
This book is for new dominant women who are nervously anticipating their first BDSM scene. It's an exciting time, but it can also be nerve wracking because no matter what, first times can be scary, and there isn't a lot of really practical advice out there to help.
When I was starting out, I just wanted someone to tell me how to do it, to give me a starting point and I would make my way from there. This is that 'how to'.
This short, sharp guide describes 13 steps you can take to help you make your first BDSM scene amazing. It helps you choose activities to include, put together a flow, get into a mindset, and run your scene. It's designed to take some of the pressure off (yes, that pressure you are putting on yourself) with tools that will help you feel more confident and kick-arse.
It covers how to:
- Choose what activities to do in your scene
- Put together the flow of the scene
- Start and end well
- Look after your submissive in scene
- Build your confidence and manage your nerves before and during play
- Handle it when something doesn't work
- Leave your submissive wanting more
- Do aftercare
It also includes an example of how I would use these steps to plan my own BDSM scene so you can see what it looks like in practice.
BONUS: FREE BDSM Scene Planner that will help you implement the steps described in the book.
